I'm hopefully getting married!

I'm not the one to judge... well that's a lie, but I'm hoping you didn't actually meet her on facebook? And usually the guys are the ones to ask to marry them. Also, why is everything legitimately ok to do so on facebook? Are you getting married online too? lol. Also what makes you love her? a few conversations and drinks? I think not. Also you're 19, you're young as fuck, why don't you wait for a traditional wedding at the age of 30 or something.


Also tell me the entire story, enlighten me on this little journey you took with little Ms.Sally.

 

well based on the title of this thread you're not really 100% sure if you're getting married or not. I don't know the state of your relationship with your girlfriend or what kind of person she is either, but I don't think it would hurt to see a relationship counsler to help you two make a decision about whether or not you two should get engaged right now. There's alot of things that come along with marriage that most 19 year olds aren't ready for. Notice I said MOST not ALL, you could be one of those lucky few that has what it takes to make it last, and if you are then Congrats!

 

I think he's confused himself. In the title it says "hopefully" but in his post it says " and we are". So I'd hope he'd make a decision soon.

 

Successful Troll 2.swf (Loop, epilepsy, 4chan)

You sir, just gave me a reason to laugh.

 

Ummm.... ok?

Why the heck would you...
A. Get married at 19(you can't even legally drink at 19 in the US., so I guess there's not going to be champagne at your wedding)
B. Say yes over Facebook
C. Let the girl lead(granted I'm a girl, and as is a relationship I sort of but not really was in[we were starting that developing phrase of good friends but not boy friend girl friend] I broke because we both were type A personalities and we clashed about a lot of stuff)
D.ever propose over Facebook. Heck they even say asking to go out is bad via Facebook and Text Message, but a proposal... Really?


Now then, she might have said she wants to get married to you but that's not in anyway a proposal. So dude when she's acting distance around you, don't be surprised.

Moving on, you're 19. Do you seriously have to get married now? You still got college going on(if you're in college), you have to get a career, live life on your own, before thinking about a wedding. Like others said, a good time to get married would be late twenties early thirties(i.e. best be at 30) and have a good traditional wedding champagne and all.

Now if you say living together, you know can, you don't have to be married to move in together. There's no law saying that the two of you can't live together. I know a couple who lived together for six years(even had a baby) before actually getting married(and if I'm correct their daughter was their flower girl).

So dude, just wait and enjoy life.

 

Oh my it's Facebook official.

It's one of the many questions of life, like how Eeyore always seems to lose his tail =\

Anyway, I'm going to say congratulations to you, Fishy smells and your dear lover Maxime. I hope it works out, and you both experience a tremendous amount of happiness with each other. Just don't rush into things too quickly.

 

sorry man but i agree with this

 

Hee hee hee. I love Eeyore. Anyways, not that I care if the girlfriend is older than the boyfriend... there were people who were 13 and 16 who ended up getting married waaay back yonder... bleh. And what do your parents think about this? Meh... *Sings* You are 19 going on 20.

=D I KNOW! Ask T... nah. He is rarely on. My advice: I say to be a virgin until 24 and then go all out, marry her, and bang it. I am still unsure about you getting married at this age.

 

virgin until 24? I hope you're kidding and being sarcastic.

 

XD Yea. I was kidding. Don't look at me. It's not as bad as Destiny and Demaian suggesting to wait until the late twenties or thirties. Want him to be a virgin til' the age of 30? I don't think so. Anyways, I am still waiting to hear the entire story.

 

the number specified made me confused.

wasn't the simplification of the story just that he has been going out with his bf for some time and they have facebook romance, asking each other to get married on there.

You know, this is just sad. or a troll.

 

That's not advice when you're enforcing contradictions on someone. Not to mention your religious ass is giving a speech on when to have sex is clearly observational.

 

??? Enforcing contradictions? What contradiction? Me saying that I am unsure of him marrying at 19 and then, jokingly, say to wait until he's 24? No contradiction there, except the fact that I believe that he should wait. -.- Also, I have not been religious on this site for a long while and I have not been religious on this thread or any other unless it is a debate on religion and I give my insight on it so to me, you really do not know what you are talking so slow your roll.

I don't really care. If he want to get marry at 19, I will not go against it or to even say anything that may hurt him. If he want to wait until he is at an appropriate age to marry, then that is fine too. I still wonder if his parents is ok with his decision on this. It is not even all that serious while you are trying to start an argument.

 

Hey fishey congratz. I hope you two will have a nice life together!