A girl

The question is, do you look good enough to attract her?

 

So cause your a grade older you may not be good enough looking??

 

you know it could be in your head. you may think you're not attractive to her but maybe to her you are. who knows? maybe she might like you back

 

Hey man! There was a girl I liked from my old school 2 years ago and she was always going for the fit ones in the class and I had a liitle bit of puppy fat so I did a run and a bike ride a day and started surfing (I still do all of these things) and after 2 or 3 months I asked her out and we've been dating and catching up ever since. So what I'm trying to say is : try hard to make her feel good or to meet her standards and sooner or later it'll sort itself out.
GOOD LUCK

 

Ouch. That does suck. But in your case, you got further than I did with this one girl. Each time I want to ask her out, she's dating somebody already.

No. It does not.

Why like Soccer? Baseball (And American Football) are way better. (By the way, don't reply to these sports comments. PM if you want.)

 

If the football player & her don't get along, then you should ask her faster, but remember that if you really cares about her that you think about what best for her.

 

Well, we're all young now right? That's what our life is about at times, experience.
Ask another girl out, wait for your favourite to be single again to ask her out again.
Just go for it, if you get rejected just look back at it and laugh or learn from mistakes. If rejection is something you cannot cope with, then I guess that may be a problem.
I'm no looker myself but I don't find it too troubling to go out and ask girls out, I learn from my mistakes and become better at this kind of thing (Truth be told, I still kind of fail XD)

Your apparently great friends with her (the one you adore) now right, I'm sure the both of you can shrug it off if it goes wrong when/if you ask her.

 

That has to be the WORST piece of advice i have ever heard in all my life, and that included pissing on an electric fence. If you ask someone else out, while harboring feelings for someone else, the relation ship is already doomed. All you would be doing is hurting someone else cause you couldn't wait. Let this one girl (the one you like) go for now. She is beyond your grasp, so focusing on her will only bring you pain. Look forward, keep your shoulders square, and walk ahead into the future. Don't look back. If you to are destined to join hands on lifes path, then good for you. I say this though, it could just as easily be another.

 

<.>.< RAWR! THAT'S SO MEAN!! DON'T EVER PLAY WITH A GIRL (The one you don't have feelngs for) JUST TO WIN A GIRL THAT YOU LOVE! That will break the girl's heart. To me, I will slap the person who do that out of love & care, even though that'll be unchristianly of me to do. Don't ever mess with a girl. THAT'S IMMATURE & NOT BEING A GENTLEMAN!! Please don't do that Overlord.

 

I guess your right SB, perhaps I should be more serious about relationships now
But here's something my married friend told me about relationships;
"It's not a want, it's a need"
I guess he told me that because I've only been toying around with the word "relationship" and I'm still figuring out the deeper meanings of the word "want" and "need" in that quote. I can see both negative and positive meanings from the two words but can't pin which one/s I want from them.
Perhaps taking this quote into effect; Do you want her or do you need her?

 

Let me see if i can shed some light on that. Let me see. Umm, well, A want is something that you don't feel like you need. You look at something, like a book, and want it. Life wont end if you don't get it, but it would seem a bit nicer to have it. Need, on the other hand, is a requirement. If you need something, you'll feel bad about not having it. If you want a girl, it's not a real love and will not last. However, if you need the girl, theres a good chance that the relationship will work out. Of course, it's just as likely to die out.

 

I met my old childhood friend today after school, (we go to different schools), and we really got to know each other better since we hadn't seen each other since the third grade. Her name is Karla and I think I really like her.

 

I just spoken to Bailey and she was pretty rude.

ouch. Seriously, that is really rude, saying whatever.


Cloaked, I say that you should ask her out, if you like her but only if you talk often but I wouldn't ask for advice from people on the internet. I asked Bailey out because of that and it was a horrible mistake, causing us to be awkward around each other, even though it's been a year since I asked her out.