LGBT thread.

Hey, I don't think ive told anyone on this site about this but I am Bisexual.
Its been rough for me lately because im 14, and just really finding who I am....
I currently have a girl friend but, its still in the back of my mind that I know who I am and I know who I want to be, and that having a girl friend doesnt makes me more strait. Ive accepted who I am and im quite ok with it.
But my parents are strong christians and spit in the faces of any kind of homosexual(metaphoricly of course). So no I have not came out and don't plan on ever coming out

 

I have one close friend who ive told. I only talk to him about it every once in a while, because its a weird topic for me and him. I feel really ok with were I am right now though. I love my girl friend and plan to be with her for a while, but I feel like im drifting away from who I really am when Im with her. I think before ive actuelly been with a guy then I cant really tell if im actuelly bi or strait.

 

It's true, Dem hit it right on the nail. My parents have the same morales.... I don't tell many people this, but I've been beaten by my father for acknowledging a cute boy I might want as my boyfriend... it hurts when your parents betray you like that it really does but please don't fear them! Tell them the truth it will only hurt more if you hold off. Please, just never forget... that's the truth.

 

about what Demaian said, it's true. My best friend who's gay only plans on telling his parents when he's 18. they're big time christians and he thinks they'll ground him for life since he's gay. i told him if they really do that then they're not trully your parents if they can't accept who he is. the same goes for you Ventus. Just come clean dude. you're only hurting yourself

 

I'm serriously afraid that my parents may disown me if i tell them. I only plan on telling them when im 100% positive of who I am. I'm about to enter high school and I'm still trying to find who I really am. In my mind though I don't want to beleive I'm bi. I don't want to be different then my peers. I do really wish I could change but I can't. I've tryed to change my mind ever since the first day I thought about it.

 

if ur unsure, listen to this. *You are who you are and no one eles. everyone's different in their own way"

 

Couldn't have said it better myself. And Ventus I know you're scared of your parents reaction but if they really do love you then over time they'll come to terms with it. They may never approve of who you are if in fact you do turn out to be Bi or Gay but they may come to deal with it. It will definitely take some time but maybe one day they will

 

Or, you can do what my good friends at a podcast suggest - hold out for a few years, then go to college. That way, when you're out of their control, you can explain to them your sexuality without them holding the roof over your head hostage.

 

OK I'm dead... I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! O.O i-i-i think my dad found out about this guy i've been seeing and I'm DEATHLY AFRAID of what he might do to me, or even worse......................... him.

PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!!!!!!!!!!! MY FATHER DID FIND OUT ABOUT HIM..... somebody anybody....... help me... I don't want to suffer anymore I don't him to suffer because of me. I need to get out of here and protect him... please help me get through this.....

 

Ya you're right i'll get on that... thanks Toph.

 

Toph's right. he has NO RIGHT to get into your love life. if he brutally beats you or him, he can get arrested for child abuse and/or assault. so before that ever happens, go to the cops if you ever see signs of him knowing about you

 

troph you nailed it before i could.. GREAT JOB =D, So did Adogx123

Anyways if he beats you, call child abuse on him and get his ass sent to jail. It's against the law to beat a child, especially over this matter, i wouldn't care about it, i would care about how you think. I think about this almost all the time really, people like your dad you could call child abuse on and send him to a class in prison, to learn and accept his child for the way he is and will not beat him, unless he wants another 2-4 year sentence i think, i'm not that good at the terms but this is it basically.

Why i approve of gay marriage, it is because i think that people need their opinion heard, not repressed or not able to speak it anywhere. People need this to get their anger out, and be able to chose what happens in their life, not have someone chose for them, your father for example Roxel.

 

Good for you Roxel! I hope your ok. You know that's exactly what im afraid of. Im afraid my parents are going to brutaly hurt me. And they would, beleive me they would!

 

And that is where some of the debates start. The way I see it, being gay or straight or whatever is a choice. Because if it wasn't that would mean one of two things. Either there is some gene that causes someone to be attracted to a specific gender (And until science proves there is such a gene, I'm not going to believe it exists), or they have (For lack of a better term) some kind of mental disease or something that causes them to be the way they are.

And before people start spamming me with messages that I'm homophobic or something, I'm not. I'm giving my honest opinion, because to me it is logical. You are welcome to agree or disagree with me, but I don't think this way due to some irrational hatred of people. By all means, post some counter argument. But do it in a calm and rational way that doesn't boil down to yelling and flaming.

 

I have to disagree with you DW. It's not always a choice, some people including myself find it ridiculous when people get so excited about sex with the other gender. I say this because I'd rather be with someone who cares about me and not just having sex with me no matter how fu**ing sexy I am. That is only one of my thousands of reasons why I am gay.

 

Personally i'm straight.
I'm not for Gay marriage, i'm against this.
I will say that if you are Gay or Bisexual i won't judge, because you may be the nicest person i meet, bu that's where religion comes in, in the Bible (yeah say whatever you want, becasue guees what i dont care I READ THE BiBLE I LOVE GOD!!! Any other questions? no ok lets continue) In the Bible it says that marriage was meant for ONE man and ONE woman
~NOT One man and ONE man
~NOT One woman and ONE woman
~NOT Several men and several women

but like i said although i dont promote gayness or Bisexualness
i wont judge you or be mean to you...