Local Relationships

In other side of my heart, i still love her. Even if she had same boyfriend until now. And it same to you, now she's more friendly and talked to me. Well, if it's the best for her, i rather to see her happiness than become her girlfriend. Beside, i have a girlfriend too

 

I don't have a relationship, nor do I really want a close one. I know two people though I like and I hit that age where boys are everything. One boy is my age, kind, smart, hilarious, but last year he did something kind of mean to me, but I forgive him and since then we became close friends. He however is what I call attractive, yet he's a nice guy.

The other boy I knew longer, he lives right down the street, but there's a year age diffrence. I knew him since grade 3, and we became good friends. However when I moved to the middle school we got far apart. When they came up, his one friend began teasing me, and all his friends and my mom says he teases because he likes me, but I don't, I tell him to stop, but he won't, so from that I had to avoid him, and he started hanging out with the boy I do like some. We came farther apart. Well now I'm in highschool and he's still in middle school, and we don't talk nor text, nothing. Yet my friends and mom says if I do go after a boy it should be him. He's attractive, smart, funny, and he's a bit of friends with my younger brother so maybe it'll stop the sibling rivalry.

Then to top it off my mom has been divorced since I was about 3 years old, she says guys are stupid and doesn't want me dating till I'm 30 or at least out of the house. Then my friends keep trying to hook me up, either with someone I know or don't know. They almost put me on a blind date luckily I had band. Why luckily? Turns out it was someone I hate so much.

I get tired of seeing girls my age talking about there boyfriends and stuff, yet I don't have one, I feel so weird like something is wrong with me. I don't know what to do. I'm in no rush for a boyfriend, but I'd like to have one for my junior year.

 

Hey,it's nice to read all this.
Star,what can I say.I would get a boyfriend while you can,all the good boys might be gone when you finally think your ready.

 

Star, I haven't had a relationship either and I know how strange it feels, when you see other people having a girlfriend/partner and you don't.
I try to not let it affect me and just forget but 2 REALLY cute girls, that are kind and polite asked me out back in England. I said "Thanks, I'd like to but I'm not ready to have a gf yet"
Don't leave not having a relationship for 2 years.
But don't ask them out too early either. That's one mistake, I made in my first two months here.....I guess, we're okay now. I had a chat with her yesterday.

 

Ah,British girls............the best kind (no offence,I'm just sticking up for my and your former country) Well,I dare say I would say yes,pritty much everytime,providing I am talking to somebody I know and like.

Tell me brawly,did you know these girls?

 

Yeah, I knew them alot. They were in my classes.

 

So why weren't you ready?I'm not trying to get on your case but,I just wanna know.Was their something bothering you?

 

No, there wasn't anything wrong. I just thought, I'd just mess up with everything and make an absolute fool of myself.....I was nervous too and everyone was talking about me and Grace (the girl I fancied the most), calling it a fairy tale story and wanting us to sing together (We were both good singers)

 

What's life without making yourself look like a fool.
Oh well,remember that saying,Why look back on life saying "I wish I did do that." When you can say "I wish I didn't do that."

 

Can't do anything about it now. I'm in a different country!!!

 

Details....well,just make sure you get to know Bailey (I know everything about you) if you can't be with with her,then you can just cherish the moments that you spend with her.

 

Nice suggestion Chocy (can't i said that?). I was shocked for weeks to know my crush had boyfriend maybe years if i don't have a girlfriend. She was nice, smart, and know many languages. She's pretty too. But even that can't stop me from loving my crush. I felt guilty because "if i go to that place" is rotating in my heart. Well, it's fine that lost a crush than crush her heart...

 

Honestly I no longer see the point of having a boyfriend right now. I'm a junior in high school which means I'll be graduating soon and going to college, so what's the point of me getting a boyfriend now when I'll have to break up with him once I head off to college?

 

"One must be sacrificed to get the goal". Tell me Leah, what is it that you most desire? College or Boyfriend? Of course College right. You could just say "we have to end this relationship. I must study."

 

Well I have no problem with dating while I'm in college, but I want to date for love and not just for a couple months of fun and then it's over, and that's how most people are in high school, they just date just to say they have a boyfriend or girlfriend.

 

Maybe you should start dating with your purpose after college. Because 18 under it's hard to relationship until married. Except both of you are love each other

 

I can't wait that long!!! It's bad enough I had to go through middle and high school without a boyfriend, but now I'd have to wait through college?! That's way too long!

 

You can never rush things though. You have a better chance at getting a relationship than me in High School because I just moved to a different school. I don't know a girl enough to have a girlfriend.

 

I guess you can call me that...it's just what I do really.
And Brawly,I wish you luck in your life,you will eventually know people though.